Sex is great.

We all know it is, and that post orgasm glow does more for your skin than any expensive face cream
ever could.
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If we all agree that sex is wonderful, then why do we shy away from admitting how much, and just
how many people we’re having sex with??
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We’ve all been asked the question, “What’s your body count?”
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Some of us don’t want to admit how few people we’ve slept with and others would never admit how high our number is.
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Whichever category you fall into, it feels like either way, you just can’t win!
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Frigid, slag, slut, whore…. are just a few of the names that seem to float around whenever this convo is raised.
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As women we’re expected to answer with a number that’s ‘respectable’ and not too high that it gives of the impression that we ‘sleep around’, whilst men are expected to give a number that shows they’re a massive LAD who goes out on the pull every weekend.
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We hate to admit it, but there is still a HUGE stigma around your “body count”.
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Well we say FUCK THAT.
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BODYCOUNT IS BULLSHIT.
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Why should we put so much weight on something as trivial as a number?
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YOUR NUMBER DOES NOT DEFINE YOU.
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And whether you’ve slept with 1 person, 10 people or 100 people has NO effect on your worth.
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So as long as you’re doing it safely, and with respect, then sleep with as many girls, guys, non binary’s as you please.
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This world could do with a little more loving.

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